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Moving into 2019…

“What would you do if you weren’t afraid – most fear success more than failure”

– Sheryl Sandberg

Moving into 2019 what could you achieve if fear was not holding you back.

Where are you currently stuck?

  • Where do you feel a sense of obligation?
  • Where do you feel there is no choice?
  • What is frustrating you?
  • What are you putting up with?

What would you do if you weren’t afraid?

Complete the sentence “If I wasn’t afraid I would…”

Make a plan as to what you want 2019 to look like, what are you going to say yes to this year and what are you saying no to, with no fear attached.

“Some people want it to happen – some wish it would happen and others make it happen”

– Michael Jordan 

I have this quote on my desk as I know it is only “me” that can make it happen.  The way you think and feel about yourself has a much bigger impact on your life than you think.

Follow the pattern below to believe in yourself:-

  • Positive self belief
  • Positive & realistic expectations of what you want to achieve
  • Constant achievements that are acknowledged
  • Increased self esteem

Take time to acknowledge achievements on a weekly basis and review at the end of the month to then set goals for the next month.  Record everything big and small to notice patterns of behaviour around your tasks eg. do you achieve more when you are busy, is your best work done at the start of the week…

We need to value ourselves, to transform our thinking into a positive regard.  Think about your favourite people, their traits are probably qualities that you possess too. It is often much easier to see what is great in others.  However what we admire in others is very often a projection of our own talents.

Moving into 2019 with high self regard and let go of any fear that has held you back.

Please do get in touch for 90 minutes learning workshops “nuggets” or one to one coaching bev@nuggetsoflearning.co.uk

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